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Getting the "Monthly".... ugghhh

Hello all-
First a bit of background: I have been with the same man for over 8 years now (engaged for ages!!!! :). We have a son who will be 6 in May. We have been trying for another child now since Dec/Jan.
I do know that it takes time but I have had my personal "enemy (sp?) 2x's since then. Not only did I hope that we would be pregnant with our next child but it was also V-Day weekend and I had the "Big-P"~ Not that romantic or spontanious (sp>?)
Not only could I not say..."honey we have Great news" but also, as every woman knows, a period puts great strain on "romantic" time!!!!
Sometimes I do not think he understands how ready and how much I want another child. My original plan was to have 4-6 children every 3 years apart. Of course how often does life work out this way?
As I said, my son will 6 and we (maybe more me) are ready for another... How long did you other moms wait for another kid?

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alexandersmom03

Asked by alexandersmom03 at 5:20 AM on Feb. 20, 2009 in Relationships

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  • My oldest is 8 then 6 then 2. None were planned though. we even thought pregnancy and I would be. We knew we wanted at least 2 kids after we had our first and then we got our 3rd lil surprise. I wanted to have 6 kids but 3 is good :o)
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 5:24 AM on Feb. 20, 2009

  • Yeah, at this point I would just love 2 or 3...more than that seems like work and I want work to be separate from personal life!!!!

    I have a younger bro and younger sis...but my mom and auntie are really close...so really we have two 20yr olds, two 22 yr olds and two 25 yr olds now!!! Mom had one, aunt had one and vice-versa!!!! So it feels like I have 5 younger siblings (with me being the eldest)!!!!

    I just want to give my son a sibling and I myself want another baby!!! At this point I am over 100% more ready than I was before!
    alexandersmom03

    Answer by alexandersmom03 at 5:42 AM on Feb. 20, 2009

  • i only have 1 and she'll be 2 in april. i wanna have another 1 wen she gets 3
    JuJu_Bean

    Answer by JuJu_Bean at 9:46 AM on Feb. 20, 2009

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