... My husband and I had Great sex! Ok, Hold on, getting to the question! LOL
Ok, well the thing is, I have Always been on the shy side, so even with him, even after 13 years -been together since I was a teen and he was....well A Lot older!- I have a hard time speaking up, telling him what I want, so last night i decided to stop being quiet and I told him what I wanted, Now! LOL And it felt good! But he has this thing... and I want to please him too. Well this thing is, he wants to... have anal sex... and sometimes RARELY, I will let him used his finger on my behind there while we have sex, and it even feels kinda good, but he is well....Big, I mean he is a Big guy and That 'part' is exceptionally big like the rest of him.
So I mean, I want to try.... But I want to enjoy it too...and Not be injured...maybe ease into it....
Sorry I know this is like Really personal and intimate. But I did not know who else to ask....
There is one other part to this. Ok, Now I am gonna sound like a Freak! LOL. But recently I got done reading the book, 50 shades of gray, and I have been wanting to try some of the things in there. Obviously, with 3 kids, and we don't have our own back room dungeon, it is a bit trickier, but I know he is into that, he just doesn't think I am, so how do I show him I am into it? And How would I start? Shy remember? LOL
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