I wasn't, at least I don't think I was. Ask my bridesmaids if you want a more accurate picture though. Honestly I don't remember most of the planning or most of the wedding. I picked the color for the dresses the bridesmaids picked what looked good on them. I did have to get a new dress when I ended up 3 months pregnant and the original dress didn't hide my baby bump. That was my mom though, not me.