O.k., here's the scenario:
I am friends with a couple and have been for over 10 years. They were mutual friends of my ex husband and I. I "inherited" them after the divorce.
I have been with a new man for 6 years. My friends have never liked my current guy, partially because of the past friendship with my ex, and partially because me and my new guy had a rocky couple of years.
Recently, my friends have become reacquainted with my ex husband. Now, all of a sudden, my current guy is not welcome in their home. But they still want me and the kids to come over. Tommorow is their daughters third birthday party. They want me and the kids there, and my ex "might" be there (according to my friend) but my new husband is not welcome.
What should I do, go, and grin and bear it.... or should I cut off this friendship? It should be noted that my current husband does not like my 2 friends, either.
Asked by Anonymous at 3:13 PM on Feb. 20, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by princezzmommie at 4:41 PM on Feb. 20, 2009
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Answer by Anonymous at 3:21 PM on Feb. 20, 2009
I think that is very rude of your friends to act this way. What? Are they TRYING to get you to pick them over your current dh. I would cut ties with them the past was the past with them.
Now if they will grow up and act like normal people should, then yeah let's all be friends.
Answer by Butterfly1108 at 3:32 PM on Feb. 20, 2009
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