Okay so here is my problem, my SO's mom has been bugging the crap out of me to bring the baby to his aunts house for St Patricks day so everyone else in HIS family can see the baby (who is 6 months old so he is not going with her alone), well I told him I just dont feel comfortable going with out him and he thinks thats stupid, he says why not blah blah blah, and really its because I am naturally a shy person, I am breastfeeding and my son wont take a bottle, I feel like his mom will be busy talking and what not with everyone, and to be honest I just dont want to go with out him, he has this thing where his ex and there kids used to go (and still does) to all of his family functions with out him, but I am NOT her, I dont want to be all up his familys butts, KWIM, how can I make him understand that its not anything against his family its just a weird situation for me, with out sounding like a big babt about it?
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I have no problem with the baby meeting the rest of his family, its just the fact that I wouldn't expect him to go and see my family with out me, but he expects me do go see his with out him, most of these ppl are ppl I have NEVER met, I would never put him in a situation he wasn't comfortable with, not to mention that most of them are all buddy buddy with his ex, and she has gone and talked all kinds of crap about me to them about how our baby isn't his and whatever, how I stole him from her (which I didn't really he did leave her to be with me BUT I didn't steal him from her), I know the only ones who I know that will be there is some of his cousins and they already have given me all kinds of attitude because of what his ex has said, I know it all seems very petty but I just think he should be there with me
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