I am dating someone for over a month, we are both separated with kids we are trying to get custody of, so we really hit it off, and related to each other. He calls me or I call him every day and we get togther a lot, but mostly for sex. We don't go out, but that is because he says he can't afford to take me out right now, but we have eaten out a few times at fast food places. He says he cares about me, but is not very verbal about it. He says he is not the mushy mush type and that he likes that I show that I care. I even told him that I loved him, and he said it back, but hasn't said it since, and I don't because I want him to say it on his own without prompting from me. What do you think? I really care for this guy, but I don't know if our relationship is going anywhere.
Asked by Anonymous at 5:42 PM on Feb. 20, 2009 in Relationships
You definitely need to give it more time, There is no way to know a person in only 1 month. I do agree about the sex, I would have waited for that, but since it's already happened and you cant change that, just hold off on the sex from now on. Just tell him that you really would like to get know him and you think that maybe your moving to fast and would like to slow it down a bit. If he agrees and respects that, than you know right there, he is interested in how you feel and has respect for your feelings. GL
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