I was wondering this because I believe my husband is soooo sensitive. I love him dearly but I get the cold shoulder from him when I want to talk to him about something that is bugging me. I don't bust his chops but I do want to be respected. On the other side though when he does give me the chance to get something off my chest he never will acknowledge that I am upset. He turns it into how me being upset hurts his feelings. He turns every conversation we actually get to have about issues into how he feels. Yet I am the one that gets the 'your too emotional' label. I get mad but geez I listen to how he feels without making it about me. What do you think of this?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 11:44 PM on Feb. 20, 2009 in Relationships
You are definitely not alone. Mine is the exact same way...21 years of this and no matter how many conversations we have had in all those years, men do not change at least not for longer than a few months at a time and they resort back to what they know...being selfish and insensitive. Of course, there will be the ones that will say otherwise...Good for them is all I can say... 8-)))
Answer by Anonymous at 11:57 PM on Feb. 20, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 12:48 AM on Feb. 21, 2009
Ya, mine is always the victim too. I just cant help wondering if it does'nt start with their mothers not teaching or telling them how to connect with a woman. I've known wonderful, thoughtful, romantic men that I could connect with emotionally, But unfortunately, no physical attraction. Why does the one that gets my heart have to be such a insensitive jerk every time? I just cant win. In my next life i'm going to be a celebate lesbian!
Answer by Anonymous at 12:49 AM on Feb. 21, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 1:37 AM on Feb. 21, 2009
Answer by IzzeAddy at 3:32 PM on Feb. 21, 2009
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