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My DD8 has to be reminded all the time to change her panties. We have gotten her days of the week panties and even put a calandor in her room so she can see the days of the week. She is starting her body change and just recently had to start wearing a bra at all times. She is good about changing her bra and making sure to wear a clean one dayly but her panties eeewww I have thrown so many away because there just nasty. HELP what to do??? I have talked calmly to her I have yelled and I've gotten to the point at one time to ignor it but she gets a form of a rash down there and cries to me that it hurts and burns ugggg.Answer Question
Have you asked her flat out why she hates having clean one's on? Perhaps she feels some kind of pain down there from the detergent your using? It's strange that she doesn't care to have clean ones on..but wants a clean bra...tell her that she is getting a rash from wearing dirty underwear. I'm sure you alrd have, but there's not much you really can do..except ask her every morning if she put clean ones on!
Answer by Anonymous at 1:37 PM on Feb. 21, 2009
why don't you simply watch her change her panties in the morning... I know it sound funny, but if handing her and making sure she has changed them daily ... it may be embarrassing to her, and she may then realize that she needs to do it....
Also you may want to explain to her about being clean and what happens or could happen if she wears the same panites all the time...
I have a 8 yr old boy... and I have to remind him daily to change...
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I do not want to scare you but I would not take my panties off, I even showered with them on. I was molested and never wanted to be without them. On time we were at the beach and ended up staying in a hotel unexpectedly. My mom wanted to wash my panties in the sink because they were sandy and I freaked out. I wouldn't take them off. She started crying and asked me WHY was I so upset (she knew in her heart at that point) I finally told her. It had been 10 years! I am still strange about undies and although I do not shower in them, that is the only time I take them off. I suggest talking about good touch, bad touch with her and that if it ever happened is was not or never would be her fault, etc. I hope this is not the case, but it was with me!
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