I am a stay at home mom and I have 3 kids ages 3, 4, and 5. Its summer so I am home all day with them which is an adjustment because I have been working full-time until a few months ago. Anyway, my husband and I have been arguing lately. I guess I just need advice on if I am being unreasonable and maybe what to do. He spends 4 or 5 days out of the week with his buddies, one in particular that he spends a lot of time with. They hang out usually at my house and if I want to spend time with my husband I have to spend time with his friend too. They drink every time he comes over, while I put the kids to bed. Drinking and hanging out with his friend seems to have become all he wants to do. I feel very neglected but when I tell him how I feel it starts an argument. He thinks I am being ridiculous. I feel like I am the only adult in the house. We are both 30 years old. He works outside the home so I have all responsibility inside the home including the kids and cooking and cleaning. He feels like since he works that he should get to do whatever he wants when he gets home as long as he's at our house and not out talking to other women. But it feels unfair to me and I feel very alone. I feel like I have been replaced by this friend. I do not have friends, but also don't feel like I have time for them. I just want to feel like my kids and I are my husbands priority. Am I being unreasonable? What can I do to get my husband back?Answer Question
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