we have only been 7 years married i quit my great job to stay home so he can better his job, now i am so lonley miss my true friends , we are falling apart .... need some good advice from some balanced ,,, and wisdom moms ,,,,,,, thanksAnswer Question
You need date nights, and you need YOU time. When 2 people are NOT happy with they're personal lives..because yes we do still need one even when married..then it will reflect into our married lives! I go to my friends place from time to time, and so does my hubby, we're much happier to see each other after being apart for a few hours here and there. Also we set aside one night a week to go out to dinner with each other. You HAVE TO do this, you need to find what it was in the first place that caused you to fall in love. It's still there, you just have to get that spark going again. Surprise him when he comes home, with something he loves..he will I'm sure return the favor. If those friends you say you miss, where true friends..they'd still be coming to visit you, and inviting you out to do things too...so consider that, your probably not missing out on much. You 2 need to get hobbies you love to do TOGETHER.
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