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for the moms who choose their husbands over their kids

does your husband feel more like a man knowing you will choose him over your kids??? cause to me a man who knows he is chosen first over his kids is a wimp and punk and a woman can kick his a@@ i don't care if this pisses anyone off cause i could never chose a man over my kids you are not right

 
Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 10:52 PM on Feb. 22, 2009 in About CafeMom

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Answers (25)
  • My mother did that to my brother and I. More than once actually. The thought of ever feeling that way myself makes me sick to my stomach, because personally, I know how much it hurts. I will never and I mean NEVER choose ANY MAN over my own child.
    lilbit837

    Answer by lilbit837 at 11:04 PM on Feb. 22, 2009

  • My DSS BM chose her SO over him. I dont understand it.
    outstandingLove

    Answer by outstandingLove at 10:53 PM on Feb. 22, 2009

  • it wouldnt happen my husband knows that my daughter comes first over him
    nakita72

    Answer by nakita72 at 10:54 PM on Feb. 22, 2009

  • i'll never understand that either
    jodi205

    Answer by jodi205 at 10:54 PM on Feb. 22, 2009

  • my mom chose her bfs over us kids and none of us want anything to do with her and she knows why our kids dont know her and never will
    wendy232425

    Answer by wendy232425 at 10:55 PM on Feb. 22, 2009

  • I agree! Kids come FIRST!
    aurorabunny

    Answer by aurorabunny at 10:58 PM on Feb. 22, 2009

  • Futhermore, its not like my children are neglected or starving. We always do things as a family so I really don't have to choose.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:58 PM on Feb. 22, 2009

  • are your kids anon 10:57??????? and im not married never will be i like my freedom
    wendy232425

    Answer by wendy232425 at 10:59 PM on Feb. 22, 2009

  • well...as a woman that does put my man over our child...I don't think that you understand the concept of what that is saying! I would never let my child come to harm from this decision, and as a mother I will protect my child from harm, as I know my hubby would!! But the fact of the matter is, I will never let my child come between my hubby and me! As far as needs, her physical needs and emotional needs will be met, but so will my husbands! Our child would not be here if it wasn't for our relationship!! Our child will grow up and move out, but my hubby and I will still be together!!!

    It is not that "women" like me love our child any less, I am going to say that we probably love our hubbies more than you love yours though!

    You just don't get it, and you shouldn't so boldly bash something you obviously have no clue about!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:00 PM on Feb. 22, 2009

  • WTF are you asking wendy? Your question doesn't even make sense.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:01 PM on Feb. 22, 2009