Hubby and I seperated (no legal seperation in our state), but we "agreed" to this. I called a "very old ex" that lived in the area that I was new in to catch up and meet people. I had "no intentions" of starting a relationship with him or anyone else rather I actually divorced or not due to emotional state and the fact I have children. After it happened anyway I realized "how naive" I really was, as well hubby and I decided to work things out. "Thank God!" Do you think it's okay to date while seperated or while going through a divorce? If not, then how long should one wait before putting themselves back out there? I don't want to imagine seperation or divorce again.....but now know that if a friend going through what I went through asked I would advise them not to at all until they really felt good about themselves again, have theirself together, and all settled with their kiddos if they have them. After two years maybe.Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 10:23 AM on Feb. 23, 2009 in Relationships
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Answer by ZaTa at 10:26 AM on Feb. 23, 2009
I don't think you should date until divorce is final. That's just me though. I think in sense it's still cheating till it is a final divorce. I think how long to wait on putting yourself out there really depends. If you have kids how will they react to you "replacing" Dad? If they are old enough let them tell you when they are comfortable with it, if not wait and when you do date. if they show signs of being upset by it then I think it's still too soon.
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