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Ladies...How do you feel about your significant other staring at other women.

Today at lunch a really pretty girl with a HUGE butt walked in. I caught my boyfriend staring at her a few times. I mean, I was even looking at it!

I didn't want to sound all crazy and insecure so I made a joke about it. He even commented " her butt looked fake it was so big" I felt a little uncomfortable. Its been bothering me ALL day!!!

So how do you ladies feel about your significant other looking at other women...I mean, harmless, right?

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Asked by Anonymous at 4:52 PM on Apr. 7, 2016 in Relationships

Answers (15)
  • We both have the same policy: You can look, but no touching. If we're together, don't be obvious.

    There is nothing wrong with enjoying a little eye candy. At the end of the day he and I crawl into bed with each other.

    Answer by Rosehawk at 5:14 PM on Apr. 7, 2016

  • We are only human. It's natural. As long as they don't flirt openly, a little peek won't hurt.

    Answer by mrsmom110 at 5:40 PM on Apr. 7, 2016

  • Right, harmless.

    Answer by virginiamama71 at 5:42 PM on Apr. 7, 2016

  • Harmless

    Answer by DJDNY at 5:58 PM on Apr. 7, 2016

  • I agree with all of the PP totally harmless in fact I sometimes point them out to my DH :O

    Answer by liss05 at 7:30 PM on Apr. 7, 2016

  • I shouldn't see him do it. I wouldn't make it obvious if I were to look at a man/woman. It's rude and inconsiderate

    Answer by Matka_Kinder at 9:01 PM on Apr. 7, 2016

  • I point out women for him to look it.

    We are married, not dead. We are going to look at good people. It's natural. It's human nature. There is nothing wrong with looking ... as long as no one touches.

    Answer by SpiritedWitch at 8:34 AM on Apr. 8, 2016

  • Looking is not a big thing to me. (We have been married 27 years). It is touching that would make me throat punch him.
    My DHis pretty good at looking but not acting like he looked. If I were you I would look at him and say something like "did you like that"?

    Answer by louise2 at 9:32 AM on Apr. 8, 2016

  • If she had a big butt I'd look too. My husband doesn't ogle women. He notices them but doesn't make it obvious. He's a man. Doesn't bother me.

    Answer by ILovemyPaulie at 9:50 AM on Apr. 8, 2016

  • Don't care. Not at all.

    Answer by gdiamante at 11:19 PM on Apr. 8, 2016

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