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PLEASE HELP NEEDS ADVICE?

I AM 25 YEARS OLD AND I HAVE A 5 YEAR OLD SON AND I WANNA TTC AND MY MOM SAYS NO ANYEVERYONE IS SAYING YES WHAT SHOULD I DO ?

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 6:27 PM on Feb. 23, 2009 in Trying to Conceive

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  • do you have a SO or hubby
    jodi205

    Answer by jodi205 at 6:28 PM on Feb. 23, 2009

  • You're 25. Your mom has no say in the choices you make as an adult.
    halfpint_ny

    Answer by halfpint_ny at 6:28 PM on Feb. 23, 2009

  • YES IM MARRIED AND SHE SAYS NO BECAUSE IM NOT GONNA BE ABLE TO AFFORD IT
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:30 PM on Feb. 23, 2009

  • If you are 25, your parent's really don't have a decision in the matter.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:30 PM on Feb. 23, 2009

  • I WANNA TRY BUT IM KINDA SCARED
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:33 PM on Feb. 23, 2009

  • So, she's giving advice....not telling. Take it as such. Look at your budget. Look at how you and your DH are doing with your finances, employment and housing situation. Are you able to keep your head above water each month with extra left over for savings? Are you living paycheck to paycheck, or significantly in debt? If you are, then yeah, maybe she has a point. Will you really be able to live comfortably with the added expense of another mouth to feed? Be realistic. If you're situation might not be right today, maybe if you don't strain the expenses, in a couple years it will be. You're only 25. You have time to have another child. What's the rush?
    halfpint_ny

    Answer by halfpint_ny at 6:36 PM on Feb. 23, 2009

  • Do you live with her or something? HA! That must be the case! Why don't you get a job instead of another mouth to feed?
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:06 PM on Feb. 23, 2009

  • IF YOU CAN AFFORD IT =====GO FOR IT!
    youngandafraid

    Answer by youngandafraid at 11:16 PM on Feb. 23, 2009

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