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I'm torn, please help

A little over a year ago my husband and I were going through a rough patch, we still lived together, just weren't getting along at all. After a serious talk and a little extra we layed everything out and worked through our issues. I found out later that his cousin (please know she's not related by blood just family friends) was over quite a few times while I was at work and he lied about it. Recently she has been leaving messages via myspace (we share one) on how much she misses him and loves him so much. I quote "I miss you soooo much bunches I love you" Now is this odd?? He swears up and down nothing happened and says he'll call her about it, but my thing is why is she being like this suddenly? Am I overreacting. I never thought he would cheat on me, but who does. I feel torn.

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Asked by Anonymous at 6:45 PM on Feb. 23, 2009 in Relationships

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  • he is cheating on you

    Answer by nakita72 at 6:47 PM on Feb. 23, 2009

  • Hes cheating or atleast sending the signal to her hes willing to.

    Answer by gemgem at 6:50 PM on Feb. 23, 2009

  • I tell my cousin I love him every time he calls. I'm not messing around with him. It's just a show of affection.

    Answer by admckenzie at 7:16 PM on Feb. 23, 2009

  • Its not just an I love you though, Its always I love you soooo much or I miss you bunches!!!

    Answer by Anonymous at 7:39 PM on Feb. 23, 2009

  • Well sometimes I message my friend that I love him bunches and miss him soooooo much, my precious Chrissy-poo!! We're friends, that's all. I don't really love him, it's mostly just joking around. Try not to take things too seriously so quickly. It could be nothing, but then again it could be a lot of something. Deep breath first.

    Answer by Kimeley at 7:56 PM on Feb. 23, 2009

  • Definitely sounds like he's cheating!

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:29 PM on Feb. 23, 2009

  • uhhh.. come on. Your a Woman. What would prompt you to leave messages like that to a Man? Yep you guessed it, he encouraged it and probably has had some sort of intimate relationship with her!

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:46 AM on Feb. 24, 2009

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