It happened a month ago. He told me the day it happened and felt disgusted with himself. I forgave him that night, he forgave himself a few days later. We've face a few struggles and now here's one we're at a stand still with.
I'm still having some trouble trusting him. Like, when he goes to school, sometimes I wonder, "Is her really at school?" (that's when it happened, he said he was going to school, and then an old friend invited him over. he didn't plan it, but I think she did. He thought she had company over and when he came over, she threw herself at him).
ANYWAY. My husband thinks I'm not loving him because I'm still struggling with trusting him. He says, the Bible says, "Love always trusts". It's in ! Corinthians 13 somwhere. And he's right. But, everyone keeps telling me that he should be giving me time to heal and trust him again. He thinks I don't really forgive him. Am I wrong? If so, how do I trust
Asked by Anonymous at 11:31 PM on Feb. 23, 2009 in Religion & Beliefs
Answer by stvmen88 at 8:49 AM on Feb. 24, 2009
Answer by outstandingLove at 11:33 PM on Feb. 23, 2009
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Answer by dedicatedrider at 11:34 PM on Feb. 23, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 11:35 PM on Feb. 23, 2009
First and foremost pray to God ask him to allow you to trust him again... God can heal that hurt you have.. Second I understand where you are coming from.. It is going to take u some time to heal from this since you want to stay with him.. Tell him that he needs to earn your trust back. because you are hurting and he needs to hug you tell you he will never do it again invite you up to his school when he gets a break or something.. I hope this helped and if you ever need anyone to talk to just message me im here for you.. God bless you
Answer by hinson7169 at 11:36 PM on Feb. 23, 2009
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Answer by Anonymous at 11:54 PM on Feb. 23, 2009