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he is masterbating at age 11 should i ground him or just let him go?

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 10:40 AM on Feb. 24, 2009 in Health

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  • Oh my goodness, you don't ground him! It's natural! If you get onto him about that, you are really just doing more damage. It's totally normal and very natural for boys that age. Leave him alone.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:40 AM on Feb. 24, 2009

  • What would you do if you were 11 and your mother found you masterbating and then grounded you! Isn't being caught torture enough? Do not ground him.
    krazyash023

    Answer by krazyash023 at 10:42 AM on Feb. 24, 2009

  • OMG, why would you ground him?? That's barbaric, he's 11, it's natural. Let him be
    Zakysmommy

    Answer by Zakysmommy at 10:43 AM on Feb. 24, 2009

  • I agree do not ground him
    he did not steal a bike or something..it is natural..
    do you have a male figure that can talk to him about the birds and bees stuff..
    Dannee

    Answer by Dannee at 10:45 AM on Feb. 24, 2009

  • I agree with the others. He might need to talk with someone about what's going on with his body. But don't make him feel ashamed about it.
    heathermarie32

    Answer by heathermarie32 at 10:47 AM on Feb. 24, 2009

  • You don't ground him!  It's perfectly normal and healthy.  Just ignore it and let it be or the poor boy will grow up will all sorts of sexual hangups.

    beeky

    Answer by beeky at 11:07 AM on Feb. 24, 2009

  • Don't ground the poor boy sooner or later he was going to find out about it. Just let it go.


    And please don't over react to this don't make him feel like he is a freak just tell him he needs to do this privately not in the open where he can get caught in the act.. Just relax MOM it is natural to do this alot of kids do it I am sure. GL Everything will be alright.baseball

    Butterfly1108

    Answer by Butterfly1108 at 11:07 AM on Feb. 24, 2009

  • I think you have some unhealthy issues with masturbation that you would even consider punishment. You don't want him to associate shame and his body/sex.
    Farrahann

    Answer by Farrahann at 11:18 AM on Feb. 24, 2009

  • Just tell him to do that w/ the door closed and locked and not make noise. Let him go.
    KARRIEMARIE

    Answer by KARRIEMARIE at 11:28 AM on Feb. 24, 2009

  • grounding a child for natural exploration .... that makes for a very messed adult. how do you know he is?
    3rdtymsthecharm

    Answer by 3rdtymsthecharm at 11:51 AM on Feb. 24, 2009

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