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why are people so quick to...

why is it you read on here alot about people wanting to be induced or people telling others get induced?
why are they so quick to do this all the time? I mean i know pregnancy is hard iv got one baby and one on the way and im 31weeks and i feel like i just wana be done but i know its best for my little guy to stay in there for 8more weeks or longer if he so chooses.

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Asked by Anonymous at 11:29 AM on Feb. 24, 2009 in Pregnancy

Answers (35)
  • people have different beliefs, You can agree to disagree but nothing will change what others think.
    Just because you dont agree with something doesnt mean everyone else has to.
    IMO - People are way to worried about other people & what they are doing with their pregnancy.... If it dont apply, let it fly.
    But if you dont agree with the topic of the question, dont reply to it or dont read it....
    Keep it simple.

    Answer by kwiseman19 at 11:31 AM on Feb. 24, 2009

  • I've never seen anybody on here tell somebody to get induced. If they have that's just ridiculous, this decision requires a medical degree.

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:32 AM on Feb. 24, 2009

  • Because when people are whining about being overdue then there really isnt much to do. The nautral ways usually don't work, so either induce or be quiet. Everyone has their own beliefs.... who cares?

    Answer by AshJoe05 at 11:33 AM on Feb. 24, 2009

  • i just saw a anon post earlier this morning telling someone to ask to be induced because her due date was today!

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:33 AM on Feb. 24, 2009

  • Getting enduced isn't a bad thing, I was a week late and the doctor wanted to enduce, it's a good thing he did, because she had a bm inside, that could have been dangerous for both of us.

    Answer by Liz132 at 11:35 AM on Feb. 24, 2009

  • was it your post about the due date??...
    or your answer telling her to get induced???....
    Nope.... So let it go, it doesnt involve you & has nothing to do with you.
    Worry about yourself.

    Answer by kwiseman19 at 11:35 AM on Feb. 24, 2009

  • I see it all the time! Especially the "why hasn't your doc induced you yet" lol.. it seems like after 39 weeks you HAVE to be induced in this section, everything else is unnatural.

    Different beliefs or not, people are irresponsible and selfish. It's human nature.

    Answer by celticreverie at 11:36 AM on Feb. 24, 2009

  • I'm 8 days overdue and I can not wait to get induced this Friday (if she doesn't come out on her own!)
    There are medical reasons to get induced, it doesn't make you a bad person to get induced.

    Answer by BambiF at 11:37 AM on Feb. 24, 2009

  • I told that girl to get induced, so what? She is at her due date and obviously it's not dangerous to the baby at this point. So if her and her doc want to then go for it!! Natural ways won't work unless your body is ready. Either she waits it out or gets induced, it's between HER and HER DOCTOR not you.

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:37 AM on Feb. 24, 2009

  • kwiseman, this is a public site. We can talk about, and respond to anything we want to. Cafemom isn't real life, so just by being on here we aren't "worrying about ourselves" otherwise we wouldn't be spending time on the answers section etc. LOL. Gah, it's not like she's out handing out pamphlets at OB offices about the irresponsibility of elective inductions. It's a question, if you don't like her question: follow your own advice!

    Answer by celticreverie at 11:37 AM on Feb. 24, 2009

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