read "the five languages of love", and have him read it too. if you know what his "love language" is, and he knows yours, it's alot easier to SHOW you love him, with out being so angry at him all the time.
also, what happened in your past to make you so angry? you might need a therapist to work through all the anger. i used to do the same thing to my hubby, cause i was mad at my abusive father, and hubby was another man to be mad at, since i couldn't yell at my father, i yelled at hubby
at 12:50 PM on Feb. 25, 2009