I'm a bmom and it is one of my biggest regrets that I chose someone who wasn't even comfortable enough to share what town they lived in, but I had to be comfortable enough to hand my child over. I understand that not everyone would be comfortable with this and that's fine, but if I had it to do over again I would NOT have chosen anyone that didn't trust me enough to allow me in their home or around their extended family. I just didn't understand back then that I had the right to ask for these things or anything for that matter. So, I was just wondering how many aparents or paparents would be ok with having the pbmom in your home?
Asked by Anonymous at 12:22 PM on Feb. 25, 2009 in Adoption
Answer by BobMariah at 2:39 PM on Feb. 25, 2009
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Answer by Anonymous at 12:30 PM on Feb. 25, 2009
Not all birth parents are created equal- some have serious issues and others are perfectly normal. It would depend greatly on the individual birth parent! I would treat them no differently than anyone else- i would make sure they were a healthy indivudual before interacting with my children...
I would not have a problem inviting a birth parent into my home, if they were safe and sober at the time of the visit.
Answer by Anonymous at 12:45 PM on Feb. 25, 2009
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