i have never had this problem, so i could be wrong. however, i would try sleeping in her bed with her (not your bed) for a week (shorter or longer however you feel she reacts) that way she will start to get comfortable in her own room & bed and still feel secure having your there. Next i would try maybe laying on her floor or somehow being in the room without being in her bed for a week (shorter/longer,etc.). after that i would try working your way out of the room. if she comes into your room after you are having her sleep by herself in her own bed, just gently walk her back make her comfortable, and go back to bed.
this is what i would try. like i said, someone else might have better advice....but maybe this will help. good luck!
at 7:56 PM on Feb. 25, 2009