I asked this question before but only got one response. ...please help me.
Do you love your BK's more then your SK's? I basically am my DSS's mom ...and DH and i are planning to TTC my first during his R&R if at all possible. Part of me thinks that having my own will help my maternal instincts and make me (in some respect) a better mommy to my DS. But i'm scared that i might love my own child more then my DS. I almost dont see how that's possible bc i love him so much already ...but does having your own change anything?
Answer by beachmamaof2 at 2:47 PM on Feb. 26, 2009
Answer by NJMom2Tyler at 1:24 PM on Feb. 26, 2009
Answer by gramsmom at 1:26 PM on Feb. 26, 2009
Answer by PROGENITOR at 1:46 PM on Feb. 26, 2009
I absolutely love my own children, adopted or biological, more than step children. My step child has a mother and a father, both of whom love her unconditionally. I am not her parent, nor do I have that bond or type of relationship with her. She is a great person and I like her very much, but I am not responsible for her and I do not have any say in how she is raised or what she's allowed to do. My role in her life is being her friend more than anything. It's a great relationship, but very different than what I have with my own children, and there's nothing wrong with that in my opinion.
Answer by DeTora_Family at 1:59 PM on Feb. 26, 2009
Answer by Ihatelaundry at 2:03 PM on Feb. 26, 2009
Answer by beachmamaof2 at 2:09 PM on Feb. 26, 2009
Answer by outstandingLove at 2:43 PM on Feb. 26, 2009
Answer by stepmom929 at 2:52 PM on Feb. 26, 2009
Answer by bi-polarmommy at 3:37 PM on Feb. 26, 2009