So...my bf took $100 out of our checking account. He hadn't said anything about it and I just happened to come across it today. So I asked him about it. Little to my surprise he immediately hops into an offensive state and gets all upset. Like I had no business asking him about it. His reply is I just spent it I don't know what on and that it's just gone and leave it at that. Mind you we are both working and barely making it paying bills and all. We're broke! The only time we spend $100 leisurly is on special freakin occasions.I'm 39 weeks we have a little girl on the way. And he thinks it's ok to just withdraw and blow $100 and not have to account for it.
i KNOW HE didn't get one darn thing for our daughter due next week. How can he be so selfish? Why does he think he doesn't have to tell me. My money goes in there justlike his.I told my sis in law about it and she couldn't beleive we didnt have separate accounts! Advice?
Answer by kboney29 at 7:56 PM on Feb. 26, 2009
Answer by jburg2541 at 8:00 PM on Feb. 26, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 8:01 PM on Feb. 26, 2009
Answer by Kari_Noelle at 8:04 PM on Feb. 26, 2009
Answer by MiMiBreezy at 8:16 PM on Feb. 26, 2009
Answer by MiMiBreezy at 8:19 PM on Feb. 26, 2009
You shouldn't have a joint account....doesn't anyone watch Judge Judy??? Beauty fades, dumb is forever. He's grown and really has no obligation to tell you where HIS money went. Even with a joint account he can say that 100 was his and you can't do anything about it really. I would get separate accounts and have a joint if you must just for all bill money to go into. Then you can pay your bills and he can do whatever he wants with the rest....as can you. My guess is it'll be all your money that is going to your daughter's needs. I would hope Anon is wrong but why is he so defensive if he didn't take it out for a shady reason?
Answer by Navymama at 8:25 PM on Feb. 26, 2009
Answer by ozarkgirl3 at 8:37 PM on Feb. 26, 2009
Answer by coutterhill at 9:03 PM on Feb. 26, 2009
Answer by smiley630 at 11:06 PM on Feb. 26, 2009