Clearly, from a lot of responces and post I read from all members of the triad there are MANY problems within the adoption industry..
Just look at us..
First moms versus adoptive moms.. adoptee versus firstmoms/adoptive moms.. adoptees versus adoptees.. I could go on forever. I'm sick of it. Why can't we all just support each other? There are going to be differences.. there are going to be different situations.. I'm sick of the fighting.
I need a place where I can come to for advice.. not a place where I have to be worried about being bashed for how I feel. That's awful.
Can't we all just get along?
Asked by Anonymous at 9:55 PM on Feb. 26, 2009 in Adoption
Answer by Anonymous at 10:09 PM on Feb. 26, 2009
Answer by Iamgr8teful at 10:30 PM on Feb. 26, 2009
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Answer by PortAngeles1969 at 1:05 AM on Feb. 27, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 2:40 PM on Feb. 27, 2009
Your initial question doesn't match the rest of your question. Yes the Adoption Industry to disgusting. Adoption and Industry don't even belong in the same phrase. It implies baby brokering, which is what it is. All three of the triad members are exploited by the adoption industry, mainly the poor adoptee.
There are plenty of groups where all triad members are supported. One that I own "infant adoption" is co owned and represented by all three parts of the triad. It's main focus is to make the adoption experience as good as possible for the adoptee. The only thing we don't allow on that group is soliciting for or offering a baby for adoption. oh yes and it's for infant adoption only not foster adoption because they are so very different.
And yes we should support each other for the mutual love of the adoptee.
Answer by onethentwins at 4:31 PM on Feb. 27, 2009
Answer by onethentwins at 1:38 PM on Feb. 28, 2009
Answer by momindistress08 at 9:43 PM on Mar. 15, 2009