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VERY personal but need some feedback......

I am 31 and my hubby is 39. We have never had any trouble in the bedroom dept. until lately! He was of town for 2 weeks and came home and could barely get hard but finally did after I performed oral on him and then he got off within a matter of seconds and then he couldn't get it back up. After a couple of days we were going to have sex again and he went limp during sex! Should he try viagra? Any thoughts on this?

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 10:07 PM on Feb. 26, 2009 in Relationships

Answers (14)
  • you sure he's not having an affair?
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:14 PM on Feb. 26, 2009

  • GUILT/AFFAIR WILL CAUSE THAT TO HAPPEN. 2 WEEKS OUT OF TOWN DOES NOT MAKE YOU LIMP, GUILT DOES. I WOULD CHECK INTO HIS WHEREABOUTS
    desperateat48

    Answer by desperateat48 at 10:16 PM on Feb. 26, 2009

  • I would say guilt or stress...
    alinker

    Answer by alinker at 10:19 PM on Feb. 26, 2009

  • Poor guy. Maybe he is under too much stress. or too tired. or wants to perform so much that he can't. Viagra has such nasty side effects that it should be a last resort.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:23 PM on Feb. 26, 2009

  • Thanks ladies for making me second guess my marriage when I was just asking a question about viagra! So nobody elses husband EVER has had trouble performing???????
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:26 PM on Feb. 26, 2009

  • people on here love to put others down now wow. anyway i think hes a littleyoung for viagra maybe he is stressed about work or something on his mind. try giving him a massage after a nice bath to relax him. get all sexied up see if that helps! gl
    Kennadismom

    Answer by Kennadismom at 10:38 PM on Feb. 26, 2009

  • Your right, I shouldnt have answered based on past issues in my releationship. Has he been taking any medication? pain pills antibiotics, that will do it to. Hes to young to be dealing with iagra, its got to be something else. A doctors visit may give you answers/suggestions. good luck and Im sorry
    desperateat48

    Answer by desperateat48 at 10:39 PM on Feb. 26, 2009

  • He has a very stressful job! And when he was of town he was working at the race track from morning till night and then had a 10 hour drive home in a tracto trailer! But i guess since we haven't had any problems before, I didn't think about stress becaused he is stressed alot!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:58 PM on Feb. 26, 2009

  • don't wanna be blunt or rude but does he masturbate a lot when he's away? My S/O sometimes has trouble performing when he masturbates too much
    SebsMom29

    Answer by SebsMom29 at 11:17 PM on Feb. 26, 2009

  • just give him a little while to recharge and if he's still having trouble, ask him about seeing a doctor.
    lowencope

    Answer by lowencope at 12:21 AM on Feb. 27, 2009

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