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What would be harder for you?

What would be harder for you, to tell someone you love them or that you do not love them back?

For me it's harder for me to tell someone i dont love them back. Because i see myself as a very loving person who loves pretty much everyone. But if they are saying they are IN love with me, when i dont love them the same way, it's very hard.


Asked by outstandingLove at 2:09 AM on Feb. 27, 2009 in Relationships

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Answers (5)
  • It's harder for me to tell someone I love them... at least at first... if I don't love someone, I just don't respond to the "I love you"

    Answer by alinker at 2:20 AM on Feb. 27, 2009

  • both because one I dont want to say I love you and end up getting hurt and two because I really dont want to hurt anyone by telling them I dont love them

    Answer by hautemama83 at 2:50 AM on Feb. 27, 2009

  • Its harder for me to love them back.
    Because once I put my heart in it, I put my soul in it.
    And then I always end up getting hurt.

    Truth is, I always date the "same" type of guy.

    Im so sick of saying I love you..
    I would rather not say it and keep it that way
    if all im going to do is get hurt in the longrun.

    Answer by Anonymous at 5:12 AM on Feb. 27, 2009

  • For me, it's harder for me to tell them I don't love them back. If I really love a person, I want to tell everyone and make it well known. But if I don't love the person back, I hate the feeling of crushing them when you give them that response. I hate breaking someone's heart.

    Answer by DDry at 9:56 AM on Feb. 27, 2009

  • Telling them I dont love them back. It breaks my heart to tell them.

    Answer by shonalashae at 9:51 PM on Feb. 27, 2009

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