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my husband says im good for nothing cause i cant give him a blow job,due to tmj cause it really hurts,he always says what wife cant give her husband a blow job,my jaw locks while im performing so i have to stop he wants to go get sucked off what do i do?????

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Asked by Anonymous at 1:19 PM on Feb. 27, 2009 in Relationships

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  • You should get a new husband. Yours is an ass.

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:21 PM on Feb. 27, 2009

  • wow, he's really insensitive...does he have any clue what or how tmj feels??! If he does and he still says this...I don't know.

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:22 PM on Feb. 27, 2009

  • He sounds like a pig. Don't let him treat you that way.

    Answer by IzzeAddy at 1:23 PM on Feb. 27, 2009

  • If he is going to cheat on you just because you can not give him a BJ. You need to get rid of him.

    Answer by louise2 at 1:24 PM on Feb. 27, 2009

  • you should leave him, he is a selfish jerk who cares nothing about how you feel. Or find something to cure your TMJ...but, i would still leave him.

    Answer by samurai_chica at 1:25 PM on Feb. 27, 2009

  • Ask him how he'd like having something jammed down his throat. Tell him you are not a bulimic and to either get over it or get a divorce. A BJ is not required to enjoy sex with your wife. He needs to grow up and realize that the world does not revolve around him getting a BJ. Good luck girl!

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:25 PM on Feb. 27, 2009

  • I would say that he is an ass and a selfish little boy. Screw him, you deserve better.

    Answer by Mom1Stepmom1 at 1:26 PM on Feb. 27, 2009

  • eeewww I dont have a medical condition, I just hate giving BJs and so I don't. My husband has always known this about me and hes fine. Hes totally satisfied and fulfilled in our sex life without BJs!!
    Get rid of him!

    Answer by ladysylpher at 1:27 PM on Feb. 27, 2009

  • yes he has seened me in pain with mouth sorta crooked as if i had a stroke i have had flare ups,my orthodontist says this doesnt go away,so i feel stuck i was able to perform before but i really cant.and when i do it hurts soooo much he gets turned off,i really dont know what to do.

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:29 PM on Feb. 27, 2009

  • I feel he is being completely un-reasonable but no means for a divorce. Tell him how he makes you feel & if he is still being a creep try counseling before a divorce.


    Answer by Anonymous at 1:29 PM on Feb. 27, 2009

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