I'm scared to tell my hubby that his best friend raped me.I don't know how he is going to react.I should have told him two weeks ago but i didn't.I don't know what to do.He said if I tell anybody the police or anything he going to hurt me or my kids.
I was at home 2 weeks ago on a Thursday,i didn't go to school because i had horrible cramps.My hubby came home from work with his best friend.My hubby left to go to the store to get some food.Left his friend their,i stayed my distance in my room as usual.i was laying down and he came over to me and covered my mouth.then he didn't whatever he wanted to me.i tried my hardest to fight back,but he was stronger and buffer then me.After that he left and never came back over.My hubby been going over his house now for now.I just don't know what to do I'm scared for my life.My daughter Ashayiah was sleeping right next to me ,she was sick with a fever.
I dont need no criticizing please!!!!
Answer by navy-wife at 3:34 PM on Feb. 27, 2009
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Answer by aznblond9 at 3:37 PM on Feb. 27, 2009
I would see a rape counselor immediately you could tell your DH together. You have to report this even if the police do nothing there will be a report and next time he hurts someone(and he will) she will have a better chance of convicting him. No ones going to think your lying, its common for women to fear telling their DH or the police. Your counselor will be able to help your husband accept what has happened. Your DH needs to know his friend is a dangerous man and your daughter probably needs therapy more than you do. I'm so sorry this happened to you but you have to understand it is not at all your fault and you have know reason to feel ashamed. This is not something you will come to understand without help.
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