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ALL MIXED UP - A.S.A.P. !

Ive had a boyfriend for 9 months..
We got in a huge arguement so I started "talking" to my best friend(boy)
and we got closer in friendship and actually went out for a couple of days.
I ended up going back to my boyfriend because I thought I loved him..
But me and him are still good friends, although he was hurt and upset.
But now I realized that my best friend was a better boyfriend
than my actual boyfriend.
SO NOW
I stopped talking to my boyfriend
and im TRYING to "talk" to my best friend
but another girl likes him and their "sort of talking"
SO WHAT SHOULD I DO NOW?
:/ Should I let go?
Giveup?
Give them time?
Try to get imbetween?
Forget about him?
Go back to my boyfriend whose not as good?

HELP PLEASE

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 9:38 PM on Feb. 27, 2009 in Relationships

Answers (15)
  • How old are you?
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:51 PM on Feb. 27, 2009

  • If they are just "sort of talking" and aren't in a serious relationship, he's free game. Do what you gotta do girl!
    nowhinning

    Answer by nowhinning at 9:52 PM on Feb. 27, 2009

  • hon how old are you
    nakita72

    Answer by nakita72 at 10:11 PM on Feb. 27, 2009

  • imo.... talk to the guy.. tell him how you feel...ask how he feels... if he wants to be with her, them let them be...
    JuLiAnSmOmMy317

    Answer by JuLiAnSmOmMy317 at 10:14 PM on Feb. 27, 2009

  • You don't have to settle for either one. Just enjoy life as a single woman and see both of them or find others. Let what happens, happen.
    admckenzie

    Answer by admckenzie at 10:19 PM on Feb. 27, 2009

  • Are you really a mom?
    KARRIEMARIE

    Answer by KARRIEMARIE at 10:29 PM on Feb. 27, 2009

  • IM A DIVORCED MOM.. YOUNG.. AND STUPID :/
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:33 PM on Feb. 27, 2009

  • Well, does he like you romantically? You can wing it but do it knowing you'll lose your boyfriend. It's the price you pay for a risk. That said, go for it! You'd rather be with the one than just the backup guy!
    jeanclaudia

    Answer by jeanclaudia at 10:50 PM on Feb. 27, 2009

  • If your current boyfriend is not a good boyfriend then cut him loose entirely. Then talk to your friend and see how he feels about you. If your bad BF is out of the picture and your freind sees that he won't get burned again by you going back to the loser BF then he might want you back. If he isn't interested in you romantically anymore then at least you cut loose a loser and can start fresh and new.
    Tawanda74

    Answer by Tawanda74 at 10:55 PM on Feb. 27, 2009

  • Um is this real?
    mommatime78

    Answer by mommatime78 at 11:12 PM on Feb. 27, 2009

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