I contacted the CafeMom Team directly about this and here is their reply. It looks like it worked for me, hopefully it will for you also.
Your homepage and profile page have their own widget layouts. So what you do on your homepage will not apply to your profile page. If you want to change where widgets are located on your profile page, click the blue "View your profile" button on your homepage. That will take you to your profile page, where you can make your changes.
` The CafeMom Admin Team
Hope this helps:)
at 9:53 AM on Mar. 4, 2009