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my 16 year old daughter!!!

got her nipple pirced 2 days ago and i just found out today! i don;t know what i should do but i am so angry right nmow?

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 8:29 PM on Feb. 28, 2009 in Teens (13-17)

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  • well there is only one reason why she would get them pierced. so obviously wants to show them off. shes 16 your her parent. Why don't you make her take them out? IMO thats slutty and trashy in MOST cases. Unless your married or with one person.
    krazyash023

    Answer by krazyash023 at 8:30 PM on Feb. 28, 2009

  • Without permission?? Don't you need a parent approval for that in those places????and if she did without asking I would remove it..
    mybabyjr

    Answer by mybabyjr at 8:30 PM on Feb. 28, 2009

  • dont they have to have parental consent if they are under 18? also, i would make her take them out and definately ground her....how long not sure. but well. i would be just as angry. wow. i am sorry. but after doing the grounding and talking with her. i would look into the legality and notify the police or whoever you notify when things like this happen.
    aly38914290

    Answer by aly38914290 at 8:31 PM on Feb. 28, 2009

  • she said some other person that was 18 said they were her mother and thats how she got it done i did make her take them out and tried to enplane why it was wrong but she has it stuck in her head it is kewl
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:33 PM on Feb. 28, 2009

  • 1) Take it out
    2) Get her tested for STDs
    3) Restriction, consistency, and a good smack on the head.

    Wimsey

    Answer by Wimsey at 8:34 PM on Feb. 28, 2009

  • thanks ladies i quess more than anythin g i needed to vent a little.. but thank u for all ur great advice
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:34 PM on Feb. 28, 2009

  • What are her grades like?
    Wimsey

    Answer by Wimsey at 8:34 PM on Feb. 28, 2009

  • i know she isnt having sex, she wouldnt want to lose her car, but i do have her tested ever few month just to make sure
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:35 PM on Feb. 28, 2009

  • she is a B student
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:36 PM on Feb. 28, 2009

  • I TOTALLY AGREE with everyone else ! who ever did it private or shop it is AGAINST the law and if someone signed for you , they ae in legal trouble! and like they said if she got it done there it is for sexual reasons . so i would do alot of talking and worse case if you guys can't then time for a counselor involved. if they get caught on material and ripe it coud be dangerous.. good luck1
    chicknlitlle69

    Answer by chicknlitlle69 at 8:37 PM on Feb. 28, 2009

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