I dont know what to do? I am a SAHM to a sweet little 3 yr. I dont think that I am in love w/ my husband anymore. I love him but not that way. He is always depressed about one thing or the other and thinks that he is always right and everyone is wrong complains about everything. I have been pretty laid back in our relationship (which I shouldn't have been-learned that lesson the hard way) He drinks way to much because he is depressed, suggested that he get some help or go on meds...which he needs and totally refuses doesn't belive in them. He is so bad that he is bringing me down and it is affecting me. I am almost to the point of wanting a divorce because I just dont see things getting better or that they will ever. we have been married for 2 yrs and together for 4. We knew each other in High School that I had a huge crush on.
I just need some advise on what should I do...I hate feeling like this.
Asked by Anonymous at 8:42 AM on Mar. 1, 2009 in Relationships
I was in the same boat as you, but not married. My bf of 3 yr's was the same way, and he was from a very religious family..so try telling him he needs med's LOL, wasn't happening. I left the relationship! I don't feel we should try to fix someone that won't fix themselves, you have tried from what your saying, you can't do much more. I fear his negative attitude and depression could be serious and reflect not only on you, but on your child. Kid's are so smart they can sense the depression too, and that could bring them down as well. Hunny, life's too short to live in misery! You need to get a man you can feel happy and healthy with every day!!!
Answer by Anonymous at 8:46 AM on Mar. 1, 2009
There have been cases of this type of depression causing serious issues in family's. I'm sure you've heard on the new's about the men that get very depressed, and for no reason they kill they're families..then themselves...this is worst case scenario I'm not saying it's that bad, but why stick around for more?? GET OUT! Your child can still see him, but i'd do supervised visits if I was you, if he's that negative and depressed, he could be too toxic to be alone with the child.
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