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When moms send u invites.. Do you usually accept them as a friend?

I had a women write me back to say.. Shes only befriends ppl she already knows or plans to meet. I thought CM was about meeting new ppl?? Obviously Im not gonna meet everyone on my friends list! How do you usually decide to accept ppl??

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Asked by Anonymous at 7:52 PM on Mar. 1, 2009 in Just for Fun

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  • Not always. Or if I do and then we don't talk much I ignore it.

    Answer by mmmegan38 at 7:53 PM on Mar. 1, 2009

  • I just accept everyone, but my profile isn't private either

    Answer by goaliemom93 at 7:54 PM on Mar. 1, 2009

  • i accept everyone's invitations, its up to them if they want to talk to me or just be on my friends list and not talk, im not one who usually needs interaction to be friends with pple.

    Answer by americansugar80 at 7:55 PM on Mar. 1, 2009

  • I accept anyone that I have spoke with on here and would like to speak with again.

    Answer by kboney29 at 7:55 PM on Mar. 1, 2009

  • I only accept people that I have seen around the forums I frequent? If I do not recognize the person, I just click "no" I don't write them to tell them why...I think some people ask a ton of people just because? I have my profile set to private...but when someone becomes my "friend" they can see my profile...I don't want just anyone to see that.

    I don't think I will ever meet anyone from here in RL though...that isn't why I would accept an invite?

    Answer by Anonymous at 7:56 PM on Mar. 1, 2009

  • so far i think i've accepted everyone who's requested me. but they usually added something like, we are in a lot of the same groups.
    or thanx for the advice on my question. or whatever.
    i wouldnt add any random person who requested me. In fact, i do believe i got a random request and did not accept until she had answered me when i asked her why she requested me. ...but that's just me. i guess.

    Answer by outstandingLove at 7:56 PM on Mar. 1, 2009

  • I love meeting new people too. I usually accept everyone that sends me an invite and I try to keep up with all of them with chatter box messages, PMs etc, However, I have found that I have gotten to know some of them more so than others and just tend to gravitate to some more than others.


    Answer by BlessedMommy64 at 8:01 PM on Mar. 1, 2009

  • I accept eveyone as well.. Doesnt mean we always talk. But whoever speaks to me.. I always talk back!!! Im just friendly and love to meet new ppl~ No reason to be snobbish on here. But if someone didnt accept me.. its all good~~

    Answer by faithful78 at 8:02 PM on Mar. 1, 2009

  • YEP I Love th chatter box as well... but im still learning on here how to do stuff! Yest I saw my profile for the first time. I thought my home page was it. lol I never notcied...

    Answer by faithful78 at 8:04 PM on Mar. 1, 2009

  • I am a very friendly person so I accept everyone and at one point or another I make an attempt to get to know them if I try and my attempt is met with rejection I delete them. Right now I only talk to 2 of my CM friends. Others I am still waiting to get to know.

    Answer by Momma2beauties at 8:06 PM on Mar. 1, 2009

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