My husband I got into a fight over the weekend. We have been fighting more and more lately, but this was the first time it got physical, and the first time I actually thought anyone would be hurt. I am not without blame (meaning I didn't instigate but when he slapped me I didn't back down and faught back). I contacted an atty. and it is going to be a lengthy process to file for a seperation (8 weeks if I use legal aid I can't afford to do it any other way) He is the only one working, I dont have any way to support myself or our 3 kids. Theydont have a clue anything happened by the way, and he is a good dad and until this weekend would have said he was the best husband too. We already have a counseling apt for wed. Would you stay and see if it was a one time thing or do you leave? I don't want my kids to see it if there is a next time, but not sure if there will be or if my judgement is clouded cause I do love him.
Asked by Anonymous at 5:19 PM on Mar. 2, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by usbornebooksdh at 9:36 PM on Mar. 2, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 5:22 PM on Mar. 2, 2009
Answer by NannyB. at 5:23 PM on Mar. 2, 2009
Answer by stepmom929 at 5:23 PM on Mar. 2, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 5:24 PM on Mar. 2, 2009
Answer by ria7 at 5:26 PM on Mar. 2, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 5:26 PM on Mar. 2, 2009
these situationvary sometimes they will not do it again but in other cases its the beginning of a abusive man because it made him feel good to hit a woman and will use the littlest things for an excuse to hit you,i was in a relationship like that when i was very young i was 16 and he was 25 he almost killed me literally and is serving a life sentence in prison right now for attempted murder using his bare hands,but like i said sometimes it will not happen again use your better judge of character..i hope you get the help you need and it all goes well for you...
Answer by sauna26 at 5:28 PM on Mar. 2, 2009
Answer by NicholeAT at 5:33 PM on Mar. 2, 2009
Answer by Jalisasmommy at 6:18 PM on Mar. 2, 2009