Is it his choice to not participate, or is it yours that he not be involved? I mean, did you ask him if he'd like to go with you? Have you talked to him about how he feels, how you feel, etc? It is his child too, maybe his feelings about all of this are different than how you think. You should really just talk to him...not on facebook or through a text message, but really TALK to him. Set up a time to get together & talk about everything going on. Ex or not, this is a child made by both of you, he has just as much right as you to participate, both emotionally & physically.
at 7:27 PM on Mar. 2, 2009