Would you say that someone who lied to you the whole time you've been together about everything and has not tried to even stop when they see that their spouse and marriage is up in flames and has been warned. They also haze ZERO respect, could care less how their spouse feels, how much they are hurting their spouse, marriage and child. Has never even made an attempt to stop and only thinks about himself. Has admitted he doesn't care and that he doesn't feel bad for it, and I am puzzled at how you could hurt the supposed love of your life to they point where they feel destroyed/used/emotionally tormented and miserable and LOVE them..How do you define love?
I feel there is absolutely nothing there but a man who is going to pull me down in every single way possible. If you've ever read the bible (I'm not getting religious here) he kind of fits the description of how God describes the devil.
Asked by Anonymous at 7:38 PM on Mar. 2, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by Anonymous at 7:44 PM on Mar. 2, 2009
Answer by cat0325 at 7:48 PM on Mar. 2, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 7:58 PM on Mar. 2, 2009
Love is an emotion of affection towards another person. We use the tell-tale signs of being in love or loving someone in order to display our inward feelings of love for the other person. One could say that someone who put you first and went out of their way to make you happy was showing to you their inward feelings of love towards you. You could also say that someone who does not make you happy and in fact makes your life miserabledoes not love you due to the evidence of his actions. From your description, he is not displaying the signs of someone who loves someone else. If he does love you, his actions are denying his purposive "feelings." Different people show their love in different ways but what you described isn't any kind of love I've ever seen.
Answer by NovemberLove at 8:24 PM on Mar. 2, 2009
Answer by yomamaporter at 8:54 PM on Mar. 2, 2009
Answer by salexander at 9:37 PM on Mar. 2, 2009
Answer by admckenzie at 9:42 PM on Mar. 2, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 9:49 PM on Mar. 2, 2009
Well, if you're looking for the definition of love... I think the Bible puts that best too..... (not being religious.... just saying it's a good description).
"Love is patient, love is kind, and is not jealous; love does not brag and is not arrogant, does not act unbecomingly; it does not seek its own, is not provoked, does not take into account a wrong suffered, does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things."
--Paul in I Corinthians 13:4-7
Answer by PaceMyself at 10:04 PM on Mar. 2, 2009