My husband thinks he is a huge help goes to work every morning while I get 2 off to school and keep the babies home with me. Then he goes to basketball when he gets home during the winter and in the spring and summer plays softball at least 4 nights a week! He comes home for maybe 30 minutes and then leaves me with 4 kids that really want him! The nights that he doesn't go anywhere he spends hours on the computer or just sits back while I deal with the kids every want and need. Our 9 year old helps as much as she wants to, our 8 year old has CP and acts out a lot, our 2 year old controls everything we do, and our 1 year old has a birth defect and is just as controling as the 2 year old but I am suppose to baby her more because of the birth defect. I am only one person and I am really losing my mind! Everyone thinks I am just kiddin but I am so serious it scares me!!! I don't have friends cause I revolve around my kids! Help!Answer Question
Answer by Anonymous at 9:37 PM on Mar. 2, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 9:38 PM on Mar. 2, 2009
Answer by gdiamante at 10:30 PM on Mar. 2, 2009
You could try talking to him and see what he says. Though that has never worked with my husband. Apparently I wasn't letting him have any fun when I asked him to help...
If you leave things undone around the house he may or may not notice. Mine doesn't even care. I sleep in a different room now and leave his room a mess and never clean that bathroom either and he doesn't seem to care. But all guys are different. Talk to him if you haven't tried already and see if you can get him to see that he needs to help more.
Answer by anime_mom619 at 12:31 AM on Mar. 3, 2009
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