so right now i am looking for an apremt or house to move in too so i can get out of my parents house and out on my own. well yesteday i told my kids that i was working on fineding us a place. and my 4 year old dugter told me that if i do fined i place that she is not moveing whith me she was stang whith grama(my mom)(where wher liven now) it was rilly sad to here that and now i dont now what to do.
do i still fiend a place where me and my kids can live on uor own or not? how do i handel what my doughter sead? HELP PLZ
Answer by kemclaughlin at 1:53 PM on Mar. 3, 2009
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Answer by ria7 at 2:37 PM on Mar. 3, 2009
My DS is 7 and he loves my mother so much. He always wants to stay with her. Some days it hurts my feelings, but I understand that he loves her. And at my parent's house things haven't changed (he has a now 19 month old little brother). So I know where he's coming from, and I let him stay on Friday nights so he can have his "alone" time. If finding your own place is the best thing for you then I would go ahead and move forward. Change is scary for children and the thought of a new place just might be really scary to her. Just explain she has to go with you, but make specific plans to see grandma (like dinner on Wednesdays or something). GL
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