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Would you beleive your dh if he...

said he never ever masturbates, I have always acted like I beleive him but we go sometimes weeks without, both have different bedtime routines, I'm an early bird hes a night owl no matter what time he has to go to work in the mornings.I don't think he is lying but still have my doubts..should I?I don't care if he does..I just always have been curious about Men if they still do even married or with someone all the time.

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Asked by Anonymous at 4:21 PM on Mar. 3, 2009 in Relationships

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  • he Probably does ... some guys a just embarassed... I caught my hubby a long time ago and I could tell from his reaction that he thought I was going to be mad... when I wasn't he is still shy about which I think is funny cause hes not really shy about anything...

    Answer by kflwrgrl at 4:24 PM on Mar. 3, 2009

  • I believe mine doesn't but we are newlyweds and I have always been pretty passionate. However I think some people don't want it as much. If he wanted it all the time and I didn't and said no, I would figure he might though.

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:27 PM on Mar. 3, 2009

  • Mine really doesn't unless totally necessary. In the 3 years we've been together he has maybe 5 times tops. Every other time when he wants it, I do too so he never has the chance to masturbate. When he does though, I know. He's not embarrassed.


    Answer by Anonymous at 4:37 PM on Mar. 3, 2009

  • My husband doesn't masterbate. We've been together almost 4 years, I know he doesnt'. He said he didn't even do it as a teen. His dad is a bishop.

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:38 PM on Mar. 3, 2009

  • I would not believe it.

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:39 PM on Mar. 3, 2009

  • LOL, they all do. Please.

    Answer by gramsmom at 4:51 PM on Mar. 3, 2009

  • I would believe him unless he has proven otherwise. My husband doesn't have a high sex drive and he doesn't do it. He did while I was pregnant because he was scared to have sex with me. He was open and honest about it and I was fine with it. If he says he doesn't, then maybe you should believe him until you see something that proves you wrong.

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:57 PM on Mar. 3, 2009

  • My guy does, and he tells me, it surprises me because we do it all the time. LOL

    Answer by NicholeAT at 5:01 PM on Mar. 3, 2009

  • they all doit... Don't let them lie to you! LOL

    Answer by kwazylisa at 5:04 PM on Mar. 3, 2009

  • Seriously ALL men do unless they are well just not normal, its a guy thing

    Answer by hautemama83 at 5:06 PM on Mar. 3, 2009

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