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Do you think being separated is cheating?

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Asked by Anonymous at 9:38 AM on Mar. 4, 2009 in Just for Fun

Answers (8)
  • only if you are cheating

    Answer by jodi205 at 9:42 AM on Mar. 4, 2009

  • until the divorce is final,then you/him are still legally married,so in answer to your question ,yes it is.

    Answer by Val504 at 9:44 AM on Mar. 4, 2009

  • I'm not sure I understand the question. However, if you mean is dating cheating when you are separated, I say no.

    Answer by admckenzie at 9:44 AM on Mar. 4, 2009

  • I think it depends on the rules you made with the person you are separated from. If this is a break in hopes to work things out and you both said you wouldn't date, etc., then yes its cheating, but if you're both just waiting for the divorce and over it, and agreed to see other people, then no.

    Answer by gramsmom at 9:52 AM on Mar. 4, 2009

  • if you are married and sleeping with someone else...yes

    Answer by JuLiAnSmOmMy317 at 9:53 AM on Mar. 4, 2009

  • If you're dating someone else, yes. If you're just separated and in the process of making it final, no.

    Answer by MommyToSmeech at 9:57 AM on Mar. 4, 2009

  • If you both discuss it and it is said that you can date other people, then no it's not.

    Answer by LND at 10:15 AM on Mar. 4, 2009

  • It depends on the rules of the separation. LEGALLY it is considered adultery, unless you are legally separated.

    If you decided to separate for a bit, and see other people, then that is a choice you make so it's *technically* not cheating.

    Answer by celticreverie at 10:21 AM on Mar. 4, 2009

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