We're a young couple, with a 3 month old. He loves his daughter and is a great father, but I do all the work with her. Feed, change, bathe, ect....
If she cries, I get up in the middle of the night. When I ask him why he doesn't help out I get "I have to work tomorrow", which is true, BUT I also work 40 hours a week. I take her to daycare, and he picks her up, brings her home and sits her in her swing until I get home. Sometimes (very few) he's holding her.
But everytime I ask him to do something he just nags...."why can't you do it", "are you going to ask me to do everything", "this is my relax time, I want to relax"...He doesn't do chores...IMO he's completely lazy, but I would never tell him that.
I made the comment that I should quit work because I'm so tired, he said we can't afford it...but doing everything is taking a toll on me and my body. I've lost all pregnancy weight plus some because I forget to eat.
Asked by Anonymous at 1:41 PM on Mar. 4, 2009 in Relationships
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