Ok so my sister and her husband have been trying to have a baby for 3 years, and she found out a couple weeks ago that she has to have a hysterectomy :( She asked me today if i would like to help them have a baby and YES i would. but they want to do IUI use his sperm and my egg. I am honored that they want me to do it, but I dont know if i could do my egg. but they cant afford IVF. Also, my husband says NO again, he is honored that they want me, but it would just be too weird for us to know that my sister and her husband (i know the baby's dad) would be raising. I am ALL for carrying a baby, but i just dont think i could use my own egg. Is this selfish and wrong of me and my husband to not want to help in the way they want us to? I dont really know what to feel.
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