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I've been trying to be a better christian and not go to the same places and do the same things. I have a wonderful husband and beautiful son, however im very sad in this new skin of christianity. Does this mean i'm not saved bc i don't like the holy lifestyle?

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Asked by Anonymous at 4:00 AM on Mar. 5, 2009 in Religion & Beliefs

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  • Sounds like you still haven't figured out who you are.

    Answer by gdiamante at 4:06 AM on Mar. 5, 2009

  • Exactly you just need to be true to yourself and go with what your heart wants.

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:38 AM on Mar. 5, 2009

  • i want to be a christian and go 2 heaven!

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:55 AM on Mar. 5, 2009

  • lesbians can be Christians.

    Answer by MythicMMM at 5:10 AM on Mar. 5, 2009

  • If you were a true lesbian. You wouldn't want to be with a man,, at all.. So you are either Bi-sexual.. Or very young,, and still trying to figure out who you are. IMO..I think you made the wrong choice getting together with this man and not really knowing who you are yet.. Potentially screwing up his life.


    Answer by louise2 at 5:25 AM on Mar. 5, 2009

  • Sounds like you're not being true to yourself. Being a lesbian isn't "against GOD". GOD wants you to be happy and true to yourself. He doesn't want you to mask your true self because of what "others" may say. It is not up to them to decide who you are.

    Answer by jenettyshome at 7:16 AM on Mar. 5, 2009

  • You aren't happy because you aren't being true to yourself.  You are trying to be something that you are not and until you live your life for YOU instead of what others think you should be, you will always be unhappy.


    Answer by beeky at 7:55 AM on Mar. 5, 2009

  • You don't have to be Christian to get into heaven, it's more important to be true to yourself.

    Answer by sammiesmom2000 at 7:56 AM on Mar. 5, 2009

  • Listen,God made you as your are.It is my opinion that you should not lie to yourself because you CANNOT lie to God.If you are gay,you are gay.Be yourself and teach your kids to be true to themselves.THAT will get you into heaven.Well............that and believing that Jesus is the son of God crucified for our sins.No bible mumbojumbo.No special rules for gay people.That is all silly!

    Yes I got my shot of preaching in there.What of it?lololol

    Answer by laranadtony at 9:07 AM on Mar. 5, 2009

  • Anon: You need to make a choice. You are either going to follow what God said and trust him in your life with him or you are going to give in to worldly desires. You made the right choice in choosing to be holy and go to heaven that is the only way there. God has chosen you to live a life of holiness without blame (sin) Ephesian 1:4 According as he hath chosen us in him before the foundation of the world, that we should be holy and without blame before him in love. God has called you into a higher standard of living. Don't listen to the lies of the devil. Keep moving forward.


    Answer by mommiejay453 at 9:39 AM on Mar. 5, 2009

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