I'm currently staying at my moms in California - separated from my husband. He says I can't come back until I have a job and a place to stay. He doesn't want to confuse the kids, thinking I've come home when it's no longer my home. I feel like he's calling all the shots, and I don't have any say or rights to my own feelings or opinions. I feel like he's dragging my feelings through the mud like a puppet. He said he fell out of love with me, and maybe we can get back together in a year or so. He needs some time and space away from me, he says, and needs to figure out why he has no friends. He said if he can't attract friends, how can he be a friend to me and be a good husband. He's a superior father to the kids. I've been away for a month now and may be going back to a job the 22nd of this month. I'll HAVE to stay with him and the kids until I get on my feet and get a place to live. Oh, it so sucks to be in love withAnswer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 10:43 PM on Mar. 5, 2009 in Relationships
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Answer by admckenzie at 11:06 PM on Mar. 5, 2009
Your husband is putting the kids and their emotions first. The way it should be. You going there will just get their hopes up that you are getting back together. And from what you've said I don't see that happening. You left the home. Unless your name is on the deed or lease he doesn't have to let you back in. Or maybe if he told you to get out. But still, why would you want to put your kids through all that?
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