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THIS MY SEEM STUPIED BUT IM GOING TO ASK ABOUT IT ANY WAY. MY BOYFRIEND HAS A DAUGHTER TO HIS EXWIFE AND JUST A FEW WEEKS AGO SHE TOLD HIM THAT SHE WAS NOT LETING HIM SEE HIS DAUGHTER ANY MORE CAUSE SHE THINKS HE IS PUTING HIS DAUGHTER 2ND AND PUTING HIS 3 BOYS THAT HE HAS WITH ME 1ST ADN HONESTLY I DONT THINK HE IS I THINK HE IS TREATING THEM ALL THE SAME AND HIS AND EVERY TIME HIS EXWIFE HAS A PROBLEM WITH ME OR MY BOYFRIEND SHE RUNS TO MY BOYFRIENDS SISTER AND ME AND MY BOYFRIENDS SISTER END UP GETING INTO A FIGHT UP SOMETHING THAT SHE HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH. AND ALL IM TRYING TO DO IS HELP AND STICK UP FOR MY BOYFRIEND. PLEASE HELP IF YOU CAN

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tracy210

Asked by tracy210 at 12:52 AM on Mar. 6, 2009 in Relationships

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  • if he has visitation rights she can not keep him away
    Amelora

    Answer by Amelora at 1:13 AM on Mar. 6, 2009

  • Stay out of it...they aren't your kids. It is your boyfriend's responsibility
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:14 AM on Mar. 6, 2009

  • i agree you should stay out of it to a point because after all it does affect you as well. But if he has parental rights she cant keep his child from him if she does he needs to call the police or contact a lawyer, just listen to your boyfriend but keep the drama away from you. Most ex's feel like that anyway and when he can see his daughter maybe he should take her out of the home and have some special time just the two of them
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:39 AM on Mar. 6, 2009

  • If they have a written court order she can be arrested for violating it. If it's just a written or verbal agreement he needs to go ahead and get a lawyer.
    tandknix

    Answer by tandknix at 1:56 AM on Mar. 6, 2009

  • why are'nt u his new wife w/ 3 kids? stay out of it!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:19 AM on Mar. 6, 2009

  • You need to stay out of anything that has to do with your boyfriend, his daughter and his ex wife. Especially his relationship with his daughter.
    Chrissy629

    Answer by Chrissy629 at 8:41 AM on Mar. 6, 2009

  • She can't keep him from seeing his dd.
    admckenzie

    Answer by admckenzie at 9:07 AM on Mar. 6, 2009

  • Tell your BF to take her ass back to court..If he has a parenting schedule and she is not
    going by it..tell him to take her back to court to reinforce it..
    She can not do what she is doing..and if there is no court agreement..he needs to file a motion to do so.. Like others said try to let him do all the talking..X wifes can become angry and bitter when the new person in her Xhusbands life becomes involved..
    Educate yourself and him..start searching the web..he has fathers rights..
    Dannee

    Answer by Dannee at 9:46 AM on Mar. 6, 2009

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