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He asked me to...

We have been together for 5 years and we always talk about marriage but now he says why dont I buy him a ring and ask him to marry me. Should I?

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Asked by Anonymous at 8:37 PM on Mar. 6, 2009 in Relationships

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  • thats what my husband said to me also... And I didn't really like that, because it made me feel like he wasnt dedicated to me or something? My opinion... But after 6 years of dating he did indeed pop the question!

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:40 PM on Mar. 6, 2009

  • i didnt buy a ring but i asked my dh to marry me. he said yes and its been 4 years. as long as you know he would then no pain right. go for it and good luck.

    Answer by tabbys4 at 8:40 PM on Mar. 6, 2009

  • If you are in love ,and believe he is the right man than do it. I proposed to my husband. I don't think there is anything wrong with it.


    Answer by cstanton625 at 8:40 PM on Mar. 6, 2009

  • I asked my hubby to marry me, of course he didnt suggest it, but 18 years later we are still together and very happy...But I am one of those strong minded females, if I want something I go get it, type of gal, I dont follow the social norms for women, never have, never will.

    Answer by midnightmoma at 8:44 PM on Mar. 6, 2009

  • I proposed to my husband!!

    Answer by ZaTa at 8:46 PM on Mar. 6, 2009

  • Ha mine said the same thing. I said I'm not against doing it, but it just kinda sounds like HE doesn't wanna pay for the ring, he wants me to! So f*ck that.

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:48 PM on Mar. 6, 2009

  • yup. I think it's sweet

    Answer by admckenzie at 9:25 PM on Mar. 6, 2009

  • I proposed to my husband too! I'd tell you the story- but it's totally not romantic.

    Answer by Erica_Smerica at 9:50 PM on Mar. 6, 2009

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