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I'm letting go a good guy..
We were so serious about marriage, but I think we might need a break.
The reason we need a break is because we don't know EXACTLY
what we want yet. We do love eachother, fight a lot, but usually get along
good. Lately, hes been "out" with his friends a lot but I know its in a "girl"
environment too. But what should I do? Should I like hold on to him with
my life? Or should I let him be, and "if he really loves me he'll come back".
I hate that quote, because I don't have patience to wait, I mean I don't
want to wait forever. Is it okay for me to date someone else? I don't want
to but is it okay? Oh, and if he dates another girl, does that mean he's not
the same with me anymore? He used to call everyday a million times, now
it's only once .. late at night. Or when he wakes up..


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Asked by Anonymous at 11:30 PM on Mar. 6, 2009 in Relationships

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  • I say move on. if its ment to be then he would be as devoted to the relationship as you, but it sounds like hes not. Hes moved on and so should you. If you do and he trys to get you back, DONT! Thats just means he has no idea what he really wants. People always want more of the thing they can't have.

    Answer by soonmommyof3 at 11:40 PM on Mar. 6, 2009

  • Thanks for the advice <3

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:47 PM on Mar. 6, 2009

  • Maybe you both need to sow some oats just to make sure of a possible decision of a life together. Let him go, be kind, date some other people yourself. It will all give you both more reassurance in to what you might be giving up and if it's what you really want. There's no hurry to "snag" him - take your time and be sure of the decision. If it's right today, it'll be right next week too.

    Answer by Trinjo at 12:28 AM on Mar. 7, 2009

  • I respect what you said
    but what if he meets the "girl" while i let him go for a while.
    Thats my only fear, that he will meet "her"..
    someone "better than me".
    And I really don't want to loose him for good.
    But I don't want to rush anything...

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:30 AM on Mar. 7, 2009

  • if he meets "THE ONE" and she isn't you it stands to reason you and him wouldn't have lasted anyway, i say move on who know's it could be you who meets someone who is better or "THE ONE FOR YOU" good luck

    Answer by Anonymous at 7:07 AM on Mar. 7, 2009

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