I keep thinking that I over-reacted, but my friend sent a pic to my hubby's phone of questionable modesty (nice way of saying EWWW!), and then said it was an accident and her phone had a glitch. I told her that she needs to keep a better eye on her phone and that it was unacceptable that he received that message from her.
Then.... she sent me a message saying that it hurt her the way I handled it.
I sent a message back apologizing and saying that I should have waited to call her instead of jumping to conclusions.
She said (on Facebook):
well it has pushed us farther apart. and so you guys won't ever get texts from me ever again cause i'm removing the numbers from my phone. ill just keep in touch with you on here or something.
So... did I do something wrong here?
Asked by Anonymous at 1:32 AM on Mar. 7, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by Luisa621 at 1:36 AM on Mar. 7, 2009
Answer by munch12502 at 1:37 AM on Mar. 7, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 1:38 AM on Mar. 7, 2009
The guilty dog barks the loudest. She reacted in a defensive manner and that usually constitutes guilt. She should have been saying she was sorry not being defensive about it.
Answer by pnwmom at 1:42 AM on Mar. 7, 2009
Answer by sailorwifenmom at 1:43 AM on Mar. 7, 2009
Answer by gdiamante at 3:29 AM on Mar. 7, 2009
Answer by MJ_BN_FE at 3:46 AM on Mar. 7, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 3:51 AM on Mar. 7, 2009
Answer by jackdaw at 3:58 AM on Mar. 7, 2009
if i had sent a pic like that to my friends hubby by accident i wouldn't wait to see if he said anything to his wife (my friend) i would ring her and tell her what happened and apologize and i'd apologize to him as well...sounds like she got caught out and is being defensive coz she knows she did wrong ..amazing how she tried to turn it around & made you feel guilty ...also i would be the one saying delete our numbers..as for her contacting you on facebook or elsewhere that's your choice. where does she get the idea that you and her will continue to be friends if thats what she wants ....... i would say good riddance and i'd be telling her how it's going to be ...
you did nothing wrong if it was me i would have told her whats whatend of story . i wouldn't allow her to make me feel like any of it is my fault
Answer by Anonymous at 6:54 AM on Mar. 7, 2009