Every single time me and my SO have sex it hurts when he puts it in... I feel like a virgin all over again. After we have sex I feel like he ripped me open and I'm sore for two days. Anyone else experience this? Any suggestions?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 10:19 AM on Mar. 8, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by ali_1107 at 10:23 AM on Mar. 8, 2009
Yes, go to your doctor. I had the same problem for a very long time. There are MANY things your doc can give you to help with this. I had to use lidocaine ointment about 10 minutes before doing it PLUS lots of lube. I know it's kinda unsexy to plan your sex ahead of time, but believe me it's worth it. More than likely your vestibular glands are swollen for some reason, probably hormonal changes, this can cause pain, almost like feeling like gravel scraping you to pieces even with lube. I have been there, PM me if you have any questions. I mean, this may not be whats bothering you, but it sounds exactly like what I went thru.
Answer by momjoy1027 at 10:24 AM on Mar. 8, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 10:27 AM on Mar. 8, 2009
Answer by ali_1107 at 10:30 AM on Mar. 8, 2009
Same for me. It's more than likely caused by hormonal changes. Mine lasted for a while....like months. But please, as embarrassing as it might be to tell your doc, tell him/her every detail. here is a great website:
Hormones can change the pH of your hoo-haa....which is what was going on in my case.
Answer by momjoy1027 at 10:31 AM on Mar. 8, 2009
My husband just reminded me about foods too...I had to eliminate high oxalate foods. My doc had all this info. that he gave me. I wish I still had it, I tossed it a few months back cause everything has been normal with me for a while. Sometimes it still hurts on entry, but not nearly as bad as it was in the months after i had my daughter (she's 2.5 y/o).
Answer by momjoy1027 at 10:34 AM on Mar. 8, 2009
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