We just had a baby(about to be 2 months old) and my boyfriend gets his son every Thursday and every other weekend. When we have his son he lets him do whatever he wants and it drives me crazy. The 2 year old doesn't talk. Nobody makes him tell them when he wants something so I don't think he'll ever learn. And my boyfriend just lets him do anything when he's with us. The only time he disciplines him is if I tell him to make him stop doing something. Every time my boyfriend tries to hold the baby his 2 yr old throws a fit and he doesn't do anything! I don't know what to do, I'm getting so frustrated. Is it wrong to want my boyfriend to be able to pay attention to the baby while his 2 yr old is here?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 2:11 PM on Mar. 8, 2009 in Toddlers (1-2)
It is not wrong for you to feel that way. I am sure the 2 year old is going through a lot with his Daddy not only having a new girlfriend but a new baby but at the same time it is not fair for your baby to have to be put aside when his brother is there. I wish I had some great advice for you but I just don't. All I can say for sure is that you need to talk to your boyfriend about this now before you end up resenting him and/or the 2 year old. You guys together need to come up with a plan.
Answer by Anonymous at 2:18 PM on Mar. 8, 2009
Answer by Farrahann at 2:20 PM on Mar. 8, 2009
sorry ..... discipline.
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